{"id":3982,"date":"2018-05-03T16:19:18","date_gmt":"2018-05-03T16:19:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vinnyroc-com.jv562z9r-liquidwebsites.com\/?p=3982"},"modified":"2023-11-07T19:41:01","modified_gmt":"2023-11-07T19:41:01","slug":"promise-to-a-friend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/2018\/05\/03\/promise-to-a-friend\/","title":{"rendered":"Promise to a friend"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"text-align: left;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-3984 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/592492E4-CD36-4790-888D-82962F321932-1-300x200.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/592492E4-CD36-4790-888D-82962F321932-1-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/592492E4-CD36-4790-888D-82962F321932-1-768x512.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/592492E4-CD36-4790-888D-82962F321932-1.jpeg 960w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>Damn, man it&#8217;s great to see you again&#8230; I was hoping the last time we talked wasn&#8217;t the way it was going to end&#8230;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>I have so much to say and not sure how long I have to say it,<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>thank you for making a man out of me<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>if it wasn&#8217;t for your Leadership I wouldn&#8217;t be in this position that you see..<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>You were my mentor my teacher my friend, my savior and means to a end&#8230;. Of an old life that wasn&#8217;t me, I was immature and not ready for reality<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>But the lessons I was taught I carry with me daily&#8230; It&#8217;s the way I live my life and it&#8217;s paid off greatly&#8230;.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>I want to make a promise to you that you will have never died in vain, I will be successful no matter what even if it drives me insane&#8230;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>I owe you that much for the things you sacrificed, your family your kids and even your life.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Imagine how vulnerable we felt, to lose a man of your class, wasn&#8217;t something we were trained to do no matter how much time can pass<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>But I am getting strong with more time that goes by&#8230;.<\/div>\n<div>but sometime feel like I forget about you if I don&#8217;t acknowledge the anniversary that you died&#8230;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>I not sure what you want me to do&#8230; Can I get some advice maybe a hint or a clue<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>I need to know its ok to move on, I can&#8217;t let that day kill me that day it did you&#8230;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>because if I did then those bastards got me too.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>I refuse to let you die in vain&#8230; I will keep pushing to be successful until it drives me insane<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Sorry I am talking off your ear there is just so much I want to tell you, so much I need to get clear&#8230;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>What was that? You want to know how your family has been?<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Oh&#8230; They been good man&#8230; From time to time Me and the boys check on them&#8230;.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Little Jonny&#8217;s playing baseball now and has a great swing a real natural you know&#8230;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>You should see him now&#8230;<\/div>\n<div>He is getting so big and You would recognize his smile&#8230;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\u00a0it&#8217;s like a carbon copy of you as a kid&#8230;.<\/div>\n<div>When he is with his friends he has the same laugh you did&#8230;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Your daughter Victoria, she is dating now&#8230; I know I know it isn&#8217;t how&#8230;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>it&#8217;s been 7 years&#8230; And she&#8217;s 16 now&#8230;<\/div>\n<div>Don&#8217;t worry too much brother we always have close sight, she&#8217;s a good kid man, you raised her right.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>How&#8217;s Kelly&#8230; Well she remarried last year&#8230; He&#8217;s a police officer , lol he&#8217;s not a Ranger&#8230; It&#8217;s nice to see Kelly&#8217;s no longer a single mother&#8230;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>He treats the kids good but not sure if you want to hear, they have their own child now his name is Hunter and he is almost about a year&#8230;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>I think It&#8217;s good to see them live&#8230; They were so lost for sometime and something had to give&#8230;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Come to think of it, I should take my own words to heart, because life since you left, I haven&#8217;t let it start&#8230;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>They moved on&#8230; And I think it&#8217;s time I do to&#8230;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Thank you for your guidance and for your families strength.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Gone but never forgotten<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Thank you for your sacrifice, it won&#8217;t be in vain\u2026<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>I will start living this life that I have been given&#8230;.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Thank you for visiting me in my dream&#8230;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Thank you again and again<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\u00a0<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-3985 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/A1F56C0B-7512-48F3-AABB-452D0B04115F-1-300x225.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/A1F56C0B-7512-48F3-AABB-452D0B04115F-1-300x225.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/A1F56C0B-7512-48F3-AABB-452D0B04115F-1-1024x768.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/A1F56C0B-7512-48F3-AABB-452D0B04115F-1-768x576.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/A1F56C0B-7512-48F3-AABB-452D0B04115F-1-1536x1152.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/A1F56C0B-7512-48F3-AABB-452D0B04115F-1-400x300.jpeg 400w, https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/A1F56C0B-7512-48F3-AABB-452D0B04115F-1.jpeg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Damn, man it&#8217;s great to see you again&#8230; I was hoping the last time we talked wasn&#8217;t the way it was going to end&#8230; I have so much to say and not sure how long I have to say it, thank you for making a man out of me if it wasn&#8217;t for your Leadership [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3996,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3982","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-general"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/DSC00170-1.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3982","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3982"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3982\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4827,"href":"https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3982\/revisions\/4827"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3996"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3982"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3982"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vincentroccovargas.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3982"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}